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Book-of-the-Month...
December 2006 |
The
Prodigal Father: A True Story of Tragedy, Survival,
and Reconciliation in an American Family
By
Jon Du Pre

Moved
by footage of a homeless man in a Boston
snowstorm, Fox TV news anchorman DuPre embarked
on a midlife quest to find his own indigent
father. A "hero" in his son's young eyes, Robert
DuPre had been a bright, successful FBI agent
turned well-respected civil rights attorney in
South Carolina, the kind of father who "never
missed a chance to praise his boys." But these
idyllic beginnings gradually turned dark. The
author effectively traces his dysfunctional
family history through uncomfortable afternoons
in strangers' living rooms while his father
visited with one of his mistresses in the
bedroom; cold nights on the curb in front of the
YMCA, waiting until midnight for his father to
pick him up from early-evening basketball
practice; and his father's drunken rages in the
makeshift basement of the family "dream home"
for which there was never quite enough money to
finish building. Luckily, a few interested
coaches and teachers helped the author through
high school, junior college and Brigham Young
University, where he discovered a love for
journalism and met his (soon-to-be Miss Utah)
wife. But happiness at home and success at work
never completely silenced DuPre's inner demons.
He felt compelled to confront his father with
his questions, his anger and his fear that his
father's fate would somehow become his ownAand
ultimately found release in the encounter.
Because this is the son's story, not the
father's, the title parable is less apt here
than that of a Hero's Journey; this is the
gripping tale of DuPre's own expedition into the
dark forest of childhood to slay the
three-headed monster of fear, anger and guilt,
and to return healed and whole.
From Publishers Weekly

REVIEW:
The Prodigal Father: A True Story of Tragedy, Survival,
and Reconciliation in an American Family.
By Jon DuPre.
Jon DuPre’s achievement with “The Prodigal Father” is
stupefying. What this correspondent for Fox Network News
has done is so simple: He has told the story of his
family of origin, consisting of two brothers, himself,
and his mother and father. As a novel, the book would
fail. For one thing, the plot would be utterly
unbelievable! But “The Prodigal Father” is billed as an
“autobiography,” and written with loving detail and
self-revelation so honest and so deep that took my
breath away. As such, it is utterly compelling and
simultaneously completely credible.
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Hit: Why Girls are Growing More Violent and What We Can Do About
it
By James Garbarino, Ph.D. ©2006
Seven
years after writing “Lost
Boys: Why Our Sons Turn Violent and How We Can Save Them,”
James Garbarino, Ph.D., professor of humanistic psychology at
Loyola University Chicago, has published what could roughly
speaking be described as a companion volume, “See Jane Hit: Why
Girls are Growing More Violent and What We Can Do About It.”
Garbarino writes well, and his book addresses a topic that has
drawn significant interest in recent years, having been
addressed in at least four other recent volumes. “See Jane Hit”
is interesting reading for gender activists, since Garbarino
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ourselves. Projecting our discontent onto our spouse doesn’t do
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© 2006 Hal and Sidra Stone are, like Judith Sherven and James Sniechowski
(whose latest book is reviewed elsewhere in this issue) a
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books and who travel the world giving workshops on their techniques
for improving one’s life and relationships. Partnering does
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REVIEW:
The Prodigal Father: A True Story of Tragedy, Survival, and
Reconciliation in an American Family.
By Jon DuPre. Jon DuPre’s achievement with “The Prodigal Father” is stupefying.
What this correspondent for Fox Network News has done is so simple:
He has told the story of his family of origin, consisting of two
brothers, himself, and his mother and father. As a novel, the book
would fail. For one thing, the plot would be utterly unbelievable!
But “The Prodigal Father” is billed as an “autobiography,” and
written with loving detail and self-revelation so honest and so deep
that took my breath away. As such, it is utterly compelling and
simultaneously completely credible.
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appropriate topic, to accumulate contributions that are varied
enough to provide interest but not so different that they work at
cross-purposes, and to publish the work. Maintaining a razor-like
focus as can easily be done with an individually authored book by
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