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Book-of-the-Month... AUGUST 2005

Being the STRONG MAN a Woman Wants:
Timeless Wisdom on Being a Man

by Elliot Katz

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Being the Strong Man A Woman Wants is about what a man can do to make things better with the woman in his life.
Is this familiar?

- No matter how hard you try to please her, she’s not happy
- You work hard for your family, yet you’re not appreciated
- You’re in a relationship, and feel you’ve lost control of your life

Learn how to gain respect and enjoyment in your relationship. Become a hero to the woman in your life. Being the Strong Man A Woman Wants by Elliott Katz is timeless wisdom on being a man. It explains why many relationships today aren’t working and what the man can do to make things better. Drawing upon age-old principles that work, this book challenges popular ideas and explains why today’s new age guy is frustrated and bewildered.

Traditionally, men learned this wisdom from their fathers. Today, many men grow up without the benefit of a strong male role model. This story is about a journey of discovery that Michael takes with his grandfather. Grandpa shares time-proven wisdom with him – wisdom that challenges many of the beliefs that have emerged over the past 30 years. Michael discovers how this wisdom can help him improve his relationship with his wife and help him grow as a person.

........"Offers hope to men and women alike. It is a must read for every man who is ready to reclaim his masculine self and start becoming the kind of man that a woman really wants." – Robert A. Glover Ph.D., Author of No More Mr. Nice Guy: A Proven Plan for Getting What You Want in Love, Sex and Life.

......."A cautionary tale, it cautions us not to throw out the baby with the bath water - to not throw out the man with the insensitivity.
Warren Farrell, Ph.D., Author of The Myth of Male Power, Women Can't Hear What Men Don't Say, and Why Men Earn More
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Guest Article... by Warren Farrell, Ph. D.
Do Women Belong in Combat?  Part one

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our female Marines were just killed in Iraq (at the end of June, 2005). Immediately the headlines reflected the myriad of discussions as to whether women should be allowed in combat, and if so, with or without restrictions.
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NEWS Article... PRWEB
Child Advocates Urge NYC to Regulate Circumcision
San Diego, CA (PRWEB) September 30, 2005 -- A decision made earlier this month by the city of New York to allow a Jewish religious court to rule on the public safety of a circumcision practice called metzizah b'peh (oral suction) has sparked a wave of criticism among children's rights advocates. The move is the latest twist in a controversy that began last November when a mohel was accused of transmitting herpes to three baby boys while sucking the blood from their wounded penises using his mouth. One of the baby boys died.
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Guest Article... by Marty Nemko
Doing Well by Doing Good

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believe that nearly all work is good work, but  many people want to do something that  clearly improves the world: helps hurricane victims, the sick, the environment, etc. Yet we don’t want to take a vow of poverty. Here are some thoughts on how to do well by doing good.
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Guest Article... by Glenn Sacks
Are Boys Really Better Off Without Fathers
Peggy Drexler’s new book Raising Boys Without Men: How Maverick Moms Are Creating the Next Generation of Exceptional Men contends that father-absent homes—particularly “single mother by choice” and lesbian homes—are the best environments for boys. Drexler recently told Good Morning America that boys do just fine without dads, and her “maverick moms” always seem to have a better way of handling their sons than dad would. While Raising Boys may seem like a harmless, feel-good affirmation for these mothers, it could have a damaging impact on children by affecting both the choices women make and family law.
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MEN IN MARRIAGE... monthly column by Marty Friedman
The Keys to Understanding Men and Creating a Lifelong, Loving Relationship... Part Two
V
ery few men feel that they get enough appreciation, care and recognition at home. In fact, most men say that they get much more criticism than appreciation. This doesn’t mean that they are actually criticized; it means they feel criticized. And when are they most likely to feel criticized? When their women tell them how badly they have performed and list all their shortcomings. Even if your motivation is completely altruistic, even if you are only trying to help your man reach his potential, he is very likely to feel shamed that he hasn’t measured up to your expectations. The best way out of this conundrum is to stop trying to change your man and start requesting what you want. Give him lots of appreciation for the tasks and challenges he completes. Just like kids, men will give you more of whatever you praise.
 
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COYOTE... monthly column by Dick Prosapio
Dealing With It
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y father died ten years ago this past Labor Day weekend. I've had a few shocks in my life but that one is right at the top. Funny thing is, I'd been rehearsing it for years you know, the, "Where will I be? How will I feel? What will I do? kinds of fruitless ruminations.

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JEFF'S LIFE... monthly column by Jeff Stimpson
Tooth Fairy... 

A few days have gone by, and I can't remember when I first spied it. Or didn't spy it. Maybe Alex was laughing one evening when Jill was out, after dinner (for Alex, probably two hot dogs and a chocolate protein bar) and I had the guys alone, and I glanced over and quickly thought something was just a little ... off. 
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DADS, DON'T FIX YOUR KIDS... monthly column by Mark Brandenburg, M.A
Memories of a Father...
Some day, you’ll be sitting with your child, listening to the radio or watching a program on TV. Somebody will be talking about premarital sex, illegal drug use, breaking the law, or some other highly charged issue. And then, your child will start to ask questions. What did you do when you were younger? How often? 
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TOWARD MANHOOD... A book in progress by Larry Pesavento

From chapter 11 Part 2... Sex
The fear of "selfish", "licentious" sex, especially among adolescents, dominates our formal social attitudes. The message we all get about sex is more shaming than uplifting, more about denying it than living it. Healthy heterosexual relations are often stymied or truncated by these shaming messages and structures. Yet, informally, society is obsessed with sex, both by moralizing on it and yet acting it out. Both obsessions act to the detriment of adult relationships.

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 Men's Book Reviews by J. Steven Svoboda

NEW REVIEWS

REVIEW: Why Men Earn More: The Startling Truth Behind the Pay Gap—and What Women Can Do About It. By Warren Farrell, Ph.D.
A new book from Dr. Warren Farrell is of course eagerly awaited by all of us who care about gender equity. I dare say that each of his books represents an evolution since the publication of the previous one, both in terms of Warren’s own growth and in terms of society’s developing awareness of, and willingness to hear more regarding, pertinent men’s and women’s (and people’s!) issues.
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REVIEW: SPIN SISTERS: How the Women of the Media Sell Unhappiness and Liberalism to the Women of America. By Myrna Blyth
Every now and then, it’s fun to try something a little different. Even if it isn’t quite your cup of tea, it keeps life interesting to try walking in the moccasins of someone with whom you might have previously thought you had nothing in common. Myrna Blyth has written a book specifically designed for, and often directly addressed to, politically conservative women. People such as myself who don’t fit into these categories may seemingly have little to gain from reading Spin Sisters. And in fact, Blyth could have written the book differently in a way that would have carried the same essential message while allowing her to speak to a wider audience inclusive of males and non-conservatives.
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REVIEW:  TAKING SEX DIFFERENCES SERIOUSLY. By Steven E. Rhoads.
University of Virginia public policy professor Steven E. Rhoads’ latest book purports to be a meticulously researched and elegantly written, provocative and groundbreaking exploration of the masculine and feminine. I found Taking Sex Differences Seriously to be a solid though unexceptional book that makes a number of interesting points. Career women, we learn, have higher average testosterone levels. Rhoads provides interesting detail on how modern university textbooks ignore women who choose to focus on volunteer and/or homemaker careers, ironically implying that the only careers acceptable for women are those traditionally defined (presumably by the patriarchy) as successful. Along similar lines, the author deftly points out the absurdity of prescribing and proscribing activities for our children based on our political wishes.
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Archive of All Reviews & Interviews... by J. Steven Svoboda.

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MENSIGHT Magazine is another free service of The Men's Resource Network, Inc. (MRN). It has grown out of the response that we have received from articles posted on TheMensCenter.com (TMC), our official web-site. The first issue went on-line on May 1, 2000. (Archive)

MENSIGHT is dedicated to publishing diverse articles for and about men. We believe that there are valuable lessons to be learned from the advocates of all the various men's issues.

MENSIGHT will publish articles, stories and information that will be welcomed by many and controversial to others. We offer the magazine for your edification but you are free to disagree or reject what you do not like. Be advised that we do not necessarily agree with every position that is expressed here.

We hope that you will be entertained, informed, educated, stimulated, and/or motivated by what you read here. We seek to empower men to be the authority of their own lives. We do not seek to tell men what to think or feel.

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