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Book-of-the-Month... October 2004

IRRITABLE MALE SYNDROME:
Solving Male Depression and Aggression
By Jed Diamond

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The Irritable Male Syndrome is not only a powerful book, it is an essential one. Diamond helps us understand why men are so irritable, angry, and depressed, and more importantly what men and women can do to prevent and treat these problems. This book can save your relationship and may even save your life. It is filled with personal examples and case studies of people the author has helped. Jed's care and compassion come across in every page. The Irritable Male Syndrome is a must read."
Michael Gurian, author of What Could He Be Thinking: How a Man’s Mind Really Works and The Wonder of Boys

"To call The Irritable Male Syndrome a milestone is an understatement. Jed Diamond is bringing out into the open an almost universal but seldom-considered fact: that in a culture where 'men aren't supposed to cry,' male depression, anxiety, and physical health challenges are often expressed in unconventional and difficult-to-recognize ways."
Jean Bonhomme MD, MPH, President, National Black Men’s Health Network and Board

of Advisors, Men’s Health Network

Guest Article... by Jed Diamond
The Four Emotional Aspects of the Irritable Male Syndrome
Definition of the Irritable Male Syndrome (IMS): A state of hypersensitivity, anxiety, frustration, and anger that occurs in males and is associated with biochemical changes, hormonal fluctuations, stress, and loss of male identity. Let me share with you what went into this particular definition. Working with males (and those who live with them) that are experiencing IMS I have found there are four core symptoms that underlie many others.
Go to Article Visit the Irritable Male Syndrome website

Columns, Articles and Men's Issues News...

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Real Men Talking... modern living and relationship stories from MENSIGHT Readers
Marriage, Love, and Men's Work
by Tim Baehr
"What has worked for us in our almost 20 years of marriage (second for both of us) has been persistence, faithfulness, humor, the evolution of a comfortable division of labor, and to at least some extent men's work.
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Guest Article... by Glenn Sacks
'Fatal Fathers' Myth Promoted in Wake of Peterson, Hacking Cases
In the midst of the Scott Peterson trial and in the wake of the apparent murder of Lori Hacking, many are declaring the murder of pregnant women by their male intimates to be a nationwide crisis. The New York Post thunders "Pregnancy's Greatest Risk: Daddy," and the Chicago Tribune says that Peterson and Hacking represent a "violent, horrific trend." Media Life magazine warns that the "Laci Petersons of the world [are] becoming more common," and a recent A &E special called "Fatal Fathers" declares that the Peterson murder is part of a "frightening" and "much larger" phenomenon.
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Guest Article... by Maxine Marz
Disclosing Husband Abuse: Part 1 of Four Parts
I’ve recently reported on wife abuse and the response I received from many women – either living with an abusive partner or who had left an abusive relationship – was overwhelming. However, what was equally interesting was the disclosure of husband abuse from male readers, including various acquaintances.
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DADS, DON'T FIX YOUR KIDS... monthly column by Mark Brandenburg, M.A
Fixing" Dads and Self-esteem
Fathers are notorious for being “fixers.” When something goes wrong or isn’t working well, fathers want to jump in and fix it. This works very well for sinks, but not so well for sons and daughters. Kids who feel as though they’re being fixed a lot tend to suffer from low self-esteem.
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Guest Article... by Wendy McElroy
Wage Gap Reflects Women's Priorities
An August 26th report from the U.S. Census Bureau stated that the median female full-time wage for women was 75.5 cents for every dollar similarly earned by men; that's down
.6% from 2002. Gender feminists quickly cried "discrimination is increasing!" Is that
charge true, and how is it being used?
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Guest Article... by Marty Nemko, Career Coach
Is That All There Is?
Conor has it good. He has a well-paying job that he enjoys, a good family life, and lots of friends. He enjoys his hobby of playing the guitar. Yet he says, “Somehow, there’s a hole in me. Like something’s missing. Passion or something.”
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JEFF'S LIFE... monthly column by Jeff Stimpson
Child's Play
Yesterday afternoon I had a few hours alone with Ned, and he claimed he wanted to go to the playground. So we set out across 72nd Street toward Central Park, where there's a playground. We entered the park and I told Ned to turn right for the playground. "Naw," he replied. "That's for kids, daddy."
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TOWARD MANHOOD... A book in progress by Larry Pesavento
A Journey to the Wilderness of the Soul
From chapter 5 - Part 3... Addictions: Life Behind the Wall
When talking of addictions most men think only of substance addictions, like alcohol or illegal drugs. I have been talking primarily of substance addictions when talking of substituting feelings for people. These ingestive addictions are the more obvious, and most reported, addictions. These are the addictions that catch the public eye.
Read Chapter 5 - Part 3

Men's Book Reviews

Go to New Reviews & Interviews... by J. Steven Svoboda.
Go to New Review... by Walter Wadas

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MILITARY HONOR ROLL... Pay tribute to the Veterans or Active Duty military in your life on our perpetual Military Honor Roll page
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FATHERS HONOR ROLL... Pay tribute to your father (grandfather, great grandfather, etc.) on our perpetual Fathers Honor Roll page
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In Memory of DAVID REIMER, 1965 - 2004
Victim of gender experiment

MENSIGHT Magazine is another free service of The Men's Resource Network, Inc. (MRN). It has grown out of the response that we have received from articles posted on TheMensCenter.com (TMC), our official web-site. The first issue went on-line on May 1, 2000. (Archive)

MENSIGHT is dedicated to publishing diverse articles for and about men. We believe that there are valuable lessons to be learned from the advocates of all the various men's issues.

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